Endings

The end of relationships are sometimes painful. Sometimes the emotions are heart-wrenching and linger for some while, other times the feelings dissipate after quickly feeling the feelings in one quick painful swoop. I think that even though the heart aches are continual after certain events, as in the death of a loved one, it is comforting to eventually know that life keeps moving forward and that time really does heal a broken heart. Some wounds will always be there and some wounds are transformed into love and wisdom that can be shared with others. Wounds can only heal if you allow yourself to truly feel them. It’s never pretty or easy but if the pain is great and killing you, what do you really have to lose? Your life is worth fighting for. There are people out there who want to love you who you don't even know exist. I know this because in my life I have realized that there are people who love and care for me and who are on my team even when I am not and have almost given up completely. You will find them and they will love you.